Tuesday, April 27, 2010
Judge @ Judgemental
What is "judge" to you?
A person to be dreaded of, an evil who doesn't knw rights & wrongs?
Are we fit enuf to judge others..or do we just play it all along just to fit into the society?
Do we judge ppl frm they way they talk, dress, eyes, pronunciation...
its already difficult to get into society nowadays, ite even difficult to stay awake and not being drifted away and away further frm who u are..but sometimes, u just hafta do it coz most of ur so-called "friends" or "buddies" are just some elitists that think so high of themselves
for example...
u've worked so hard just to be where u are now would u look down just for a moment and think abt those unfortunates? have u ever wondered how they juggle wt lives, careers and family? whats more if those unfortunates are not so lucky in a sense that they r not highly educated, not so beautiful or even worse disabled? would u turn around and help them? do they have enuf to eat tonite? are their homes gonna be ok thru'out this stormy nite?
would u become an opportunist by preying at them and suddenly leap onto any gold chances that come across u? why would ppl, esp those who have good careers & $ just lurve to do that...
whats more, if those ppl are pretentious jerks yg berpura2 religious but at the same time condemning others by saying "those who'll be accepted to heaven would be those who rush, or even run to perform prayers at masjid"
bukan itu riak and takbur ke?
Itu yg Nabi larang, tp itu juga org sekarang suka buat...menjadi hakim on Allah's behalf...
I'v taken vows NOT to be judgemental towards others, let alone judgin whats rite or even whats wrong for anyone that I knw or mybe don't knw
mmg betul, dulu aku bukan begini..dulu aku seorang secularist, menganggap semuanya penting, sama level bg buruk atau baik tp itu sebelum aku mengenal & mencintai ISLAM & MUHAMMAD 5 tahun yg lalu aku bukan begini, aku begitu...
Tuesday, February 9, 2010
I finally learnt when & how to say NO
It's difficult to say NO, esp when someone who is kinda dear to you ask u to help him/her. Since I've started working, it had been pretty hard for me to displease anyone@ colleague, I guess during that time I was a on contract-basis (ppl say that when u're still on contract-basis, its better if u just follow what ur so-called superiors asked u to do)..well then..I followed that advice for 4 years..2005 marked my social adjustment when my priority has been adjusted to mr hubby and everybody knows that whatever it is, he comes first in my list..be it nite classes, club xtivities or even a simple get-together with my lady friends...he used to complaint that I spent too much time doin' office stuffs (I used to bring back students' work, quizzes..) I went for my Induction Course in 2008, leaving him and our then lil' monster when he has just reached 1 yo..late 2009 I began to think straight and finally I came to my senses....I've have said NO to many things..
"dd, I need u to draft module for this......" - I answered OK"could u replace ----- for tis event..couldn't make it" - I responded SURE, WHY NOT
"I have decided that u should do this..cz....." - I said MY PLEASURE
"i knw that ur appt for tis post ends tis dec...but i couldn't find any1 else than u..so, could u pls stay for 1 more term?" - I replied AS U WISH..
so...I confidently rejected an offer to b 1 one of CM for 1 of the most important posts in the uni....my reason...
I need to focus on 1 of my goals..2012....2 more yrs to go....
simple as that....
Thursday, January 21, 2010
bed-sharing
...tell me..do we call this fury four-legged creature as "pet" or just ...Alice...
better still..siblings ? ppl must be talking behind or even straight to my face...biasalah..mak2 yg over-damn concern...
SCENE 1
"anak u x allergy cats ke? my son/daugther x bleh sgt2 kena kucing..nnt gatal satu bdn..ari tu pegi playground pon.....(pekakkan telinga)"
"tak pun..biasa je"
SCENE 2
"U better be careful..x psal2 kena asthma nnt budak tu"
"iya ke...sejak dlm confiment lg I mmg dah expose my son dgn Alice..so far, ok je..."
SCENE 3
"I x bleh lah tgk anak2 I main dgn kucing..geli..eeeeeee"
"haha...Alice ni homey cat..we never let her out of the house compound..."
such a damn typical answers..!! If u, urself hate cats or even other fury animals, why must u educate/brainswash ur kiddos that all cats are dirty? they're just kids, so pure, so innocent...let them play/expose themselves to one of thousands gifts Him..
Alice's vet @Dr Puspa from Segamat kept on reminding me not to separate them, even during confinement..it turned up that Alice is such a good help..I remember when Umar was just few weeks old & we decided to bring him back to our home, Alice was so happy that she meow-ed at him many times. I guess she wanted to make sure that Umar would recognise her voice. One day, while I was in the kitchen cooking, Umar slept in the living room. Little that I knew Alice was somewhere near, but I didn't make her to go away instead, I let her linger around him so after he has dozed off, I went to the kitchen and did the coking stuffs..once in a while, I checked on them..she slept by his feet as if she was guarding or shall I say giving me xtra hand to watch him..so swuueett huh..not long after that, I heard Alice meow-ed again and kept lingering at my feet..and I can sense that she tried telling me something...I quickly went to the living hall & I found that Umar has waken up...one damn great sista!!!
So tell me...who's allergy to who?
& thats why we insist him to address her as KAK Alice..other cats@alley cats...as just CAT MEOW...
Wednesday, January 20, 2010
calendar
saya suka calendar 2010...(UiTM punye lah..)
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I wouldn't miss any meetings anymore, Tuan TPHEA...sbb kecomelan notebok ini sungguh syahdu...black is for elegance..not that Black @ Mas Idayu so-called apprentice..yeee yaks...
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I wouldn't miss any meetings anymore, Tuan TPHEA...sbb kecomelan notebok ini sungguh syahdu...black is for elegance..not that Black @ Mas Idayu so-called apprentice..yeee yaks...
sbb ade ni....
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aren't they cute? dulu2, b4 lil monster was born..this pix would resemble me & the big guy..the smaller tiger tu of course the wife.. the bigger tiger tu must be the male cz it has to look sturdy & strong...and of course, and real tough guy...
now..its just me & the lil guy...notice the heading...INTERGRITI...
Friday, January 15, 2010
2010
this year...
the lil' one turns 3
mommy turns 30 + 3
walid turns 40 + 3 + 1
Alice turns 8 - 5
no 3...
hummmm
nice number...
well, so far there's only 3 + 1 in the Rozmans clan...
the lil' one turns 3
mommy turns 30 + 3
walid turns 40 + 3 + 1
Alice turns 8 - 5
no 3...
hummmm
nice number...
well, so far there's only 3 + 1 in the Rozmans clan...
Wednesday, November 11, 2009
reenergising
hibernation..?
could be..
tryin' to fix up everything..?
maybe..
sick & tired of the whole thing?
shouldn't be..
wantin' to vent out anger?
must be..
the big question..
have u found what u've been lookin for?
ANSWER : 'the thing' that I am looking can't be found anywhere..its right inside me..
gibberish thought that is stuck on my mind for quite sometime..i just refused to let it out..but now, what the heck.let it out, gurl!!!
could be..
tryin' to fix up everything..?
maybe..
sick & tired of the whole thing?
shouldn't be..
wantin' to vent out anger?
must be..
the big question..
have u found what u've been lookin for?
ANSWER : 'the thing' that I am looking can't be found anywhere..its right inside me..
gibberish thought that is stuck on my mind for quite sometime..i just refused to let it out..but now, what the heck.let it out, gurl!!!
Monday, July 27, 2009
what's this? & who's this? (umar jibril's version)
he imitates people nowadays, but in his amazing ways..
mommy : what's this, umar ?

TEKTER... (tractor)
mommy : what's this, umar?
ANSWER : ..NANA (BANANA)
mommy : what's this, umar ?

ANSWER : Vroomm, vroom..! (huh)
mommy : what's this, umar ?

ANSWER : cat (correct! clever!!)
mommy : now, let's try another pix who's this?
ANSWER : kakak !!! (duh)
mommy : who's this, umar?
ANSWER : wawa..(its short form of WALID, huhu..blehlah!!)
mommy : what's this, umar ?
& sometimes MOMMY turns to MEYMEY...
apa sudah jd anak saya ini?
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